Tuesday, November 22, 2016

WOMEN OF THE BIBLE I: EVE

Hey everyone!
I have been very busy taking care of my baby, and feel tired most of the time. So much that I can’t afford the luxury of sewing or working on any major project. However, by next year January, she will be six months old and I will stop exclusive breastfeeding. Then I will start sewing again and sharing all my work. I am currently working on a sew-along Facebook group, and Instagram page; work will resume fully next year.

One thing I have time for though is my Bible. I started reading the Bible from Genesis sometime in 2015 and finished it this year August, but I felt it was rushed, so I decided to start all over again. This time, my aim is not simply to read through to the end, but to fully understand and digest everything therein with the help of the Holy Spirit. As I read, I am taking notes on women of the Bible. Let me share with you two things I’ve learnt from the first woman in the Bible, Eve.
  1.  She was created to be a help to the man- Genesis 2:18-25. As married women or about to be married women, we must not forget that God’s original plan for us is to be a help to our spouses. To support them and to stand by them. I read a book; Created to be his help meet by Debi Pearl that helps analyse how to fully work in God’s purpose for me as a woman.
  2. Eve was carried away and allowed herself to fall into temptation- Genesis 3:1-24. Temptation in itself is not a sin, but falling into temptation is a sin. I have learnt to always be careful to obey every word of God, and to constantly pray for the Holy Spirit to order my steps aright.

Our ultimate goal in life should be to please God, and live a life worth emulating. I have heard someone say “let your life be the Bible that people read”. May the grace of God be with us. God bless you! 

P.S
This is my beautiful daughter!






Friday, November 4, 2016

WHEN IS THANKSGIVING?

Hey everyone!

This year, 2016 thanksgiving is on the 24th of November.

Thanksgiving is a national holiday celebrated mostly by Americans. Thanksgiving is celebrated on the fourth Thursday of November yearly. Families and friends usually eat meals specially prepared with turkey, spend time together and share what they are thankful for/ to have.

In Nigeria, this is not a recognised celebration. However, it is a good idea for family members to spend time with one another at least once a year and be happy. If you are in Nigeria, I encourage you to organise a family gathering with every member of the extended family present, invite friends, cook and thank God for all He has done from the beginning of this year. It doesn’t even have to be on the 24th Of November, your meal must not be prepared with turkey, and you must not celebrate it like the Americans. What is most important is that you make out time with family and friends to thank God.

Thanksgiving should not only be in November, we should all cultivate the habit of spending special moments with loved ones and families to thank God, especially for the gift of life.


Happy thanksgiving! God bless you!   

Tuesday, November 1, 2016

New November; I'm Back!

Hey everyone!

Happy new month! Welcome to the month of November! In this month, I have decided among other things 
to start blogging again.

So, it’s been years since my last post. Actually it’s been four long years... A lot happened.

I graduated from college, got a Masters Degree, and now I’m married with a lovely baby. My previous blogs used to be about; how much I hated school, how I couldn’t wait to graduate and return home to my country Nigeria, movie reviews and some other social activities. Over the years I have learnt a lot, plus realizing that school wasn’t so bad after all, and I’m glad that I stayed till graduation.

Now with the decision to resume blogging, it will mostly be about; DIY (Do it Yourself), my sewing lessons, movie review, and lifestyle generally. I’m excited because I already have a lot of things to blog about...

Also, it’s a new month and I hope we all make the most of this 30-day November. Have a wonderful month, and God bless you!  

Saturday, October 29, 2016

THE HIGHWAY TO HELL by Awe Hilary




Man is on a journey to a destination of choice, and as the day passes by, the total length of his journey diminishes. The more the day progresses, the closer he approaches his end. Death is an inevitable occurrence, and it is a gateway of uncertainty which is directly proportional to the decisions made by a man while alive.

The Bible in the book of Proverbs 16:25 says “there is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death”. The word “death” as used here, does not literally refer to the inevitable phenomenon of "death" that everyone must go through before arriving at a final destination, but was used to refer to the eternal ruin and damnation that any man will face as a result of bad choices. This is the highway to hell. Today, humans are involved in a vast array of activities that seem very normal, politically correct, and in conformity to the acceptable world standards, but unknowing to them, it is a high way to hell.

The highway to hell is a Broadway that has the capacity to take a vast number of people at the same time. The drive is so smooth and filled with pleasure but no reproof. It was well constructed and designed by the best acts of deception and witchcraft, with conscience slain on the altar and his remains dishonored. What a pity! The road has no potholes and no caution sign post warning the travelers on this route against an impending danger.

Life is a journey, and every living soul is a traveler passing through the route called earth. For you to be qualified as a traveler, you must have made a decision on the transport provider to travel with and also your location of destination. The intending traveler must also possess a medium of exchange which is usually in the form of currency in order to give him access to the services been rendered by the transport company. There is a transport company with a vast number of cars that only travels on this route. They have parks labelled “ignorance” and cars with various inscriptions waiting to board their passengers to a destination of no return. These parks have various types of cars with inscriptions to differentiate the various types of passengers. These inscriptions include lies, fornication, adultery, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, sedition, heresies, envying, murders, drunkenness, reveling etc, which are considered works of the flesh (Galatians 5:19-21). For a passenger to be granted entry into any of these cars, he or she must possess the currency of “death” which is the only acceptable currency in these parks, and must also be engaged in activities that connote the inscriptions on any of the cars. For example if a traveler is engaged in the business of fornication, he/she will be granted access to the car with inscription “fornication”, and if another passenger is engaged in more than one business, he/she is granted access to a car with more than one inscription connoting his businesses. The greater the business of sin a traveler is involved in, the more the accumulation of the currency of “death” (Romans 6:23).

However, the journey starts after boarding, with these vehicles taking the only route known to them which leads to the pit. The journey feels so good with various avenues of funfair and freedom that knows no boundaries. In this journey, “anything goes”, with no clear defined rules or restraints to guide these passengers, but suddenly a woman appears on the sidewalk of the highway. The occupants of these cars who are in a state of ecstasy mistakes this woman for a lunatic, and they say in their hearts, who is this fool? But the woman beckons on them with all desperation shouting “STOP STOP!!! PLEASE GO BACK!!! THERE IS DANGER AHEAD!!! and her efforts yield no results. The Bible in the book of Proverb 1:20 says that” Wisdom crieth without; she utereth her voice in the streets” and because “ye have set at nought all my counsel, and would none of my reproof: I also will laugh at your calamity (proverb 1:25-26 ) . Wisdom cried out but the occupants of these vehicles doomed for destruction refused to listen to her. What a pity! Have wisdom been beckoning unto you desperately and you rebuked her like the occupants of those vehicles? Repent now because the price of sin is too costly, for the bible says in the book of Romans 6:23 that “for the wages of sin is death......”

Hell is not a place  for one to spend his eternity because, it is a place of unimaginable cruelty where gruesome acts of torture is an occupation for demons. It is a place of wailing and crying, a place so extreme in gruesomeness that the occupants of those vehicles wished they listened to wisdom. They say to themselves, Oh! We would have listened to wisdom and asked the driver to take us back, but now it is too late when the head is off. Remember that salvation is a gift for the living, as there is no salvation in the grave.

Finally, as u read this article, i would like you to x-ray your life and ask yourself, am i really in the park of “ignorance” or am i already on a trip to the highway of hell?  If you are in the park of “ignorance” or already on the highway to hell, it is time to get out of the vehicle and embrace wisdom on the sidewalk and she would lead you to the narrow path. The narrow path is a road to eternal life and only the vehicles of saints are permitted. Wisdom beckons on you today, please give her a chance and live. God bless you.

JESUS CHRIST IS CALLING YOU TODAY FOR HIS SECOND COMING IS AT HAND. GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS CHRIST BECAUSE THE NEXT SECOND MIGHT BE TOO LATE. GOD BLESS YOU.

#TheHighWayToHell

Friday, April 13, 2012

What I can Do (2) Movie Producer

I know one other thing I can do, I can and will be a movie producer. I love watching movies and strongly believe I can do this... It is difficult for me to come with what movie I love most, but I really like a few. The movie I have watched a thousand time and is still not tired of is - Hangover






Apart from movies, I love series. If I do not produce a series, I may end up acting in one. My favorite are;


















Disclaimer: I do not own any of this pictures, I got them all from the internet.



Saturday, March 24, 2012

J. Carter; Seriously?

So, I was very excited about watching John Carter and I talked my hubby into it. We finally got the ticket on friday 11:45pm. I knew he was tired and needed to rest on a friday night but I still insisted on watching a movie that night.

I do not remember the last time that I walked out of the cinema while watching a movie. I had to this time around........I was like "seriously, did I just stay awake to watch this?
The movie was generally unrealistic to me; the foreign language used with no translation whatsoever, creepy animals as means of transportation, the creatures with four hands, not to mention John Carter's excessive jumping......

The lesson learnt? Next time read what others who have watched a movie have to say about it before rushing to watch it. Something I found interesting about the movie though is the body of the woman that got involved with John Carter in that planet (whatever the name is).I look at her and wish I could be that slim....

Anyway, am definitely never going to watch that movie again, that movie called John Carter!

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

What I can Do (1) Own a Hotel

2012 is a special year, there is a lot in stock for me this year, as such I have decided after planning so many things to resume writing again.....

I am going to begin a series of writing "What I Can Do" I have figured out that I have quite a lot of interests, so much I am most times confused about what I should do or not do.....So today I begin with the number one thing I have in mind.

What can I do? own a hotel. Why? because;

Interest- I have great interest for hotel business business. This was built right from childhood, my dad has a hotel and my uncle too. I grew up in the hotel environment and used to wish I could someday own a hotel, I worked in the hotel for a while and have some experience, now I know I can...Since I have the interest and know I am passionate about owning my own hotel, it is settled.

Top people- owning a hotel will give me opportunity to meet with top people in the world. When the services at my hotel is great, it will attract the high and mighty. Now I have to think of a name, and also figure out what will be unique about the hotel to attract all these calibre of people (I still have lots of work to do)

Money- plenty money will flow in without me having to work for anyone. This is actually very important for me, especially because I love staying at home. I am not limited by what others think, but can add a lot of fun and enthusiasm to what I want, working at my own pace. Awesome.

Plan- 3 years welcomes first branch in Abuja, Nigeria. 5 years second branch in Canada. 10 years third branch in langkawi, Malaysia. I now see that I have a lot of work to do, God will help me and yes, I can.


Friday, July 29, 2011

HANNA; Saoirse Ronan

"I just missed your heart" the first and last sentence in the movie...
So, my friends and I went out for dinner. After that we decided to watch a movie since it was Friday night, and we finally settled for HANNA. I in particular wanted the movie because I first saw Saoirse Ronan in City of Ember which was a nice movie and assumed this one will be better.

Saoirse Ronan was good, I think she felt her role and acted it well. But I did not feel the movie; especially every part there was a fight. The music was so loud at such times and I just did not see the action. I felt their fight scenes were all fake and not interesting.

I should have waited for another hour to watch Hangover 2 instead of watching what I did not enjoy. The worst part is, I could not get the main message in the movie and actually have no lesson from the movie. When I was a kid, my mum used to ask me what I learnt from any movie watched, gone are those days I guess when there were any lessons from movies. These days, it is either robot cars are boxing, or vampires stories; Lord have mercy!

At least I learnt something today; never watch a movie because you think the trailer is good, choose movies wisely so you dont like me wish you had spent your day sleeping instead of watching a movie and later regretting...

Tommorrow am going to watch Hangover 2; fingers crossed, hoping I wont regret.

HANNA; Saoirse Ronan

"I just missed your heart" the first and last sentence in the movie...
So, my friends and I went out for dinner. After that we decided to watch a movie since it was Friday night, and we finally settled for HANNA. I in particular wanted the movie because I first saw Saoirse Ronan in City of Ember which was a nice movie and assumed this one will be better.

Saoirse Ronan was good, I think she felt her role and acted it well. But I did not feel the movie; especially every part there was a fight. The music was so loud at such times and I just did not see the action. I felt their fight scenes were all fake and not interesting.

I should have waited for another hour to watch Hangover 2 instead of watching what I did not enjoy. The worst part is, I could not get the main message in the movie and actually have no lesson from the movie. When I was a kid, my mum used to ask me what I learnt from any movie watched, gone are those days I guess when there were any lessons from movies. These days, it is either robot cars are boxing, or vampires stories; Lord have mercy!

At least I learnt something today; never watch a movie because you think the trailer is good, choose movies wisely so you dont like me wish you had spent your day sleeping instead of watching a movie and later regretting...

Tommorrow am going to watch Hangover 2; fingers crossed, hoping I wont regret.

Monday, July 18, 2011

HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR MEMORY


Since I am preparing for exams, I decided to use this opportunity to discuss something more educational. And since Memory is one of the topics in a subject am taking this semester; Cognition and Perception, I thought it would be do me good to write about it. Truth is though, am tired with school and cannot wait to graduate next year and join the work force like my brothers whom I envy so much….anyway that’s another issue, let me not digress.

So, memory is defined as the ability to acquire, retain information and retrieve the information when needed. There are three important processes involved in assessing this information; encoding, storage and retrieval. Encoding involves receiving the information and making sense of it, this could be visual or auditory. Storage is analyzing the information and retaining it either for a short or long period of time depending on the nature of the information. Then, retrieval is the ability to remember and make use of the information that has being received and stored. For example, when I meet a person for the first time and the person tells me his name is Walter (encoding ), then I make sense of the information and put it in my mind (store), then few weeks later I see the same face and am able to remember this is Walter which I met few weeks back (retrieve). Failure to retrieve, remember is known as forgetting.

There are three basic types of memory; sensory memory, short term memory and long term memory. Sensory memory is retention for a brief period of time due to sensory stimulation in the environment and this retention is usually only for about a second. Shorty term memory is retention of memory for about 15 to 20 seconds and it is possible to store large amount of information here by chunking them up into groups. For information to get to the long term memory there must be constant rehearsal because this is permanent memory that serves as an archive used to remember information in the past. For example, a student goes for a lecture and pays attention, the information is in the short term memory, but it goes to the long term memory with constant study of the lecture notes provided.

The processes and types of memory is really basic and easy to remember, but even if you don’t understand there is no cause for alarm because the main aim of this is to diverse means to improve memory. Here are 5 important ways that memory can be improved;

Attention; it is important to pay selective attention in order to remember and retrieve information when needed. Do you find yourself constantly forgetting what people say to you, or not remembering the instructions to doing a particular thing? You probably need to pay more attention and let your mind be there. Do not try to multitask when you are faced with a serious situation, do not think of other issues when engaging in activities that are of importance to you. Be in that meeting spirit, soul and body while paying undivided attention and pushing away all forms of distraction, then you will remember vital information.

Eat balanced diet; when I read that food enhances memory, I almost jumped for joy because, “men, I love food”. However it is not just eating food but eating balanced diet. We as Africans may not find this fascinating because of the kind of food we eat and our culture that does not motivate eating balanced diet. Despite all that, we can decide to eat lots of fruits and vegetables. Also exercise is needed, it may not be a routine so stressful but at least something to keep you fit and relaxed.

Association; a picture, they say, is worth a thousand words. You remember information more easily if you can visualize it and associate it to something vital. For instance if you want to remember a name, say Rose, you visualize the rose flower and associate it with the person. You must know that there is no limitation involved here because it is your own mind and your own way of remembering. You can decide to associate a person called Rose to your favorite cup which has a Roe flower on it, so when you try to remember the name you, simply remember your cup thus, Rose.

This is my most efficient mode of remembering, once I associated what my lecturer told me to a rat because I felt her voice sounded like the squeaking of a rat and I wanted to remember it, which was easy for me afterwards. If you are coming up with something weird, you do not have to say it to anyone, as long as it enhances your memory. It's your mind; make the images as shocking and emotional as possible to keep the associations strong.

Drink moderately; whatever thing done should be done in moderation, if you drink alcohol, am not telling you to stop, but to do it in moderation because research has shown that it may affect your memory. Drinking affects mental tasks, and the abuse of alcohol has a negative effect on the cells and neurotransmitters of the brain. Moderation in consumption may help to improve not just cognition but also memory. However, more research needs to be done regarding this and I must say that I also have little knowledge about alcohol and its consequences regarding memory. The bottom line is, drink alcohol moderately.

Sleep; have enough sleep, make your life less stressful, and create time for fun. Sleep for about 6 to 8 hours a day or as you feel is appropriate; endeavor to rest after a hectic day at work so you wake up the following morning feeling refreshed and less stressed. It may be difficult for some people to sleep especially when they have a lot of problems on their minds, but if you can make yourself sleep it will help a lot to distress. Meet with friends when you have the time or during weekends, talk, laugh together and do things you enjoy. The less you worry, the more information you can retain.

Finally, do the one that best applies to you as no one knows you more than you know yourself, not even me. So, it is your decision; your choice to pay undivided attention, associate and visualize information, eat healthy, drink moderately, and have enough sleep. Better do all, or research more about memory and how it can be improved.

Have a nice time, be the best in whatever you do, and pray for me that I do excellently well in my upcoming exams. Adieus

Thursday, June 16, 2011

IF THEY CAN, I CAN

So you think that money is the root of all evil. Have you ever asked, what is the root of all money? Evil aside, let us now talk money, people who have it and its roots. Moscow was in June 2011 was declared as the city with more billionaires in the world with a total of 79 living billionaires beating New York which had 59 billionaires. Yes you just read that, not 7 or 9, but 79 BILLIONIARES.

Now, whether you know where Moscow is or not, no one cares, there are billionaires living there, normal human beings like you and me. Here they are;

5. Roman Abramovich – $17.1 billion (owner of Chelsea Football club)



4. Oleg Deripaska – $19-billion (aluminum)




3. Alisher Usmanov – $19.9 billion (steel minning)




2. Mikhail Prokhorov – $22.7 billion (internet)





1.Vladimir Lisin – $28.3-billion (coal mine)




These men have worked hard to get to this position. Since they did, we all can if we choice to WORK hard and above all be FOCUS



Thursday, June 9, 2011

HOW FAR....?


Each time people ask me where am from and I tell them Nigeria, the next thing they say is “how far?” it is assumed that Nigerians here in Malaysia generally greet each other in this manner and I never saw it as a big deal until recently when it occurred to me that we are already half way into the year, therefore I need to ask myself “Nanko, how far?”. I think we all need to ask ourselves the same question; how far have we gone in achieving all the goals we had in the beginning of this year?

Sincerely, I think I have achieved half of my goals, on the other hand, there are certain things I intended doing this year that I have not even started working on. This is a cause for concern as I only have few more months before this year runs out, so I decided to come up with strategies that I call “speedy moves”. Let me share them with you…..

Set timer to remind me to pray; I am a Christian and believe God should be the number one in my life. I am going to set my phone timer to ensure I say a word of prayer every three hours, will pray about anything that comes to mind only to make God priority and number one. Now it does not matter your religion, if you want to want to put your God first, then why not? Remember you are doing this for yourself and for your success. My dad always tells me “there comes a time where you will be left alone, just you and your God” this time is now, it’s time to get serious.

Attach me goals to my mirror; let me talk about something else so it does not seem as though I am preaching. Am going to write down my goals (unachieved ones) and attach them to my mirror so that I have access to them every day. The mirrors in my room are precious to me and since I look at them daily, in fact continuously I might as well as use them as a means to speedily achieve my goals. You don’t have to do same if you don’t love mirrors as much as I do, you can condition your goals to any stimuli you choose to, do whatever works for you.

Hang around more motivated people; I probably should not include this as one of the things I aim to do because so far there are no such people around me, but it will help if you look around you and analyze the caliber of people that surround you. Are you surrounded by people who do not even have plans, or don’t know what they want out of life? You may probably want to think twice and act fast because the companion of fools suffers harm.

Use my time productively; I know that nothing's ever done yesterday and tomorrow is yet to come; it is only in the today that anything ever is done. Today, I am deciding to make good use of my time and most importantly sleep less. Seriously, I don’t think it is profiting to sleep for 6 hours anymore; doctors will say you need it to be healthy and function well, but I know people (my brother) who sleep for about 4 hours and still manage to be healthy and successful in life so am going to do same. Reduce my sleep and use the time I have to work. That however will not stop me from having fun and being friends, in fact, this weekend am going to the cinema with my friends to watch Kungfu Panda 2, cant wait…..

In conclusion, Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out. This is my plan/strategy for the remaining months of the year and am determined to strongly go by it. I challenge you to come up and yours, remember to do whatever works for you because there is no such thing as “one plan fits all”. It is your life and you alone can determine HOW FAR……

Thursday, May 19, 2011

TRIP TO BANGKOK; DAY 3


Today, we decided to just stay at home. Watched lots of movies, downloaded Google Sketchup and had fun playing around. I took some pictures from the balcony of 1008.




TRIP TO BANGKOK; DAY 2


At 8:45 we were ready to go out. A taxi man came and picked us to Safari world. We had fun seeing all sorts of wild animals like lion, tiger, and so many others. We generally had fun, in short, pictures talk better than words.






















Friday, November 12, 2010

Prepare for the Pool; be happy with your Hair!

There is absolutely no need to worry about my hair anymore when going to swim. I love swimming and now I have discovered ways to take proper care of my hair and will like to share it with you; yes you!

1.Be ready for a good swim;
Before swimming, it is important to be prepared for it and plan how much time to be spent in the pool. Swimming is not only fun but also helps to keep the body firm and above all, contributes in the lose of weight (which is important to me). Plan what to do; and do it.

2.Damp hair;
This works well in preserving the hair and makes it absorb less chlorine when in the pool. Chlorine is not good for the hair especially if there is too much of it.

3.Condition hair;
Add moisturizing conditioner to the damp hair to coats the hair and add moisture also protecting it from the chlorine.

4.Apply oil;
This provides extra protection alongside the conditioner. Any oil will do, my best oils are 100% olive oil and 100% coconut oil. Massage the oil to the scalp and allow for a while to absorb before going to the pool.

5.Wear a swimming cap;
Finally, tie up hair and cover with a swimming cap. Don’t worry if your hair gets wet cos you are in the pool and should expect that, only bear in mind that your hair is safely secured. Have a great time swimming!

Remember to wash off hair after the nice time....


Saturday, November 6, 2010

I Hate school; I hate assignents.....

I need motivation to study for my exams cumin up in three weeks time, I need to finish up my assignment due on Friday, I need to work on my power point slides for presentation Wednesda, I need to.......

Am so sick and tired of school right now, I only want to sleep sleep sleep. I pray my folks dont ever get to see this blog cos they will KILL me without a second thought; nobody dares put the family to shame by attempting to not get to at least Masters level...argh.

Hate my fact that my family is so supporive of education, yet I HATE school. I need to motivate myself by myself.

I Love this New HAIR; itz so ME.

My hair has being taken care of by me for almost a year now, am so proud of my gud work! I usually carry it in a straight style, but today I decided to try something different....It isnt bad afterall........:D









I have to limit myself to these few pictures for now cos I need to go to bed. Nothing feels as good as taking a hot shower and retiring to bed after a hectic day....the only frustrating part is that my hubby isnt back yet, Arrgggggh.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Honey I want TWINS

When my hubby and I start talking about having children, I will tell him I want TWINS!

I suppose it wont be a problem since I have a history of twins in my family and so does he, am only not sure he'll want our first issue to be twins.....thatz why am a Psychologist, am only to psych him to agree so we can have TWINS; I love them and want two boys.














Friday, October 29, 2010

My New Hair Regimen

Am so tired of my hair and want to cut it shorter or even completely low. Before I do, am going to try some new products and see how it works.
I went to sunway pyramid today and spent over a hundred ringiit on these hair products; they better work or else...!


I went swimming afterwards, then I applied a mixture of oils on the hair to begin my one week of trial. I mixed coconut oil with olive oil and anti dandruff oil, put on a shower cap and am in bed updating my blog before retiring to bed.....Tomorrow I will continue by washing the hair and flat ironing it, the new products are;



Herbal essence moisturizing shampoo and conditioner for my dry-frizzy hair


So happy to have this 100% coconut oil, all the way from India. My flat mate told me that it will make my hair grow fast and healthy just like Indian hair!


Hair serum, will apply this before I flat iron the hair to protect it from the heat



100% olive oil, this is very thick and smells awesome too. I will be applying it to my hair every night before I sleep.




Wide tooth comb to detangle hair after washing, and rat-tail comb to make lines before flat ironing.



My lovely lovely FLAT IRON. This is the best thing I have ever bought.



Me, last week and my hair. Next week I'll take another picture to see if therez any difference. Hope I get convinced not to cut my hair!